Can't Control My Climax

Sebastian writes:

As a seventeen year old male, this is an incredibly embarassing and sensitive topic.

I recently went out with a girl to the cinema, clearly not intending to watch the film. As the film went on we naturally got closer and the hormones began to take their effect. Without going into too much detail, she had her hand in my crotch area and...needless to say...I was stimulated.

However completely out of the blue I ejaculated. I have masturbated before and have often thought that it didn't last that long, but always assumed that this was just due to technique. This however completely knocked me sideways and I spent the rest of the night sat in silence. This has been on my mind ever since and I wondered if there was any advice you could give me?

Yin's Answer

I understand why you would be worried but really there is no need. You are a young man and you have hormones racing all over the place- not to mention that a grope in a dark cinema is bound to get anyone excited!

Don't let this play on your mind or it will eat you up. Just put it down to the passion of the moment and enjoy being a young red blooded male. If you feel the same thing happen next time you get intimate with a girl then there is one simple trick to help you out....think of the least sexy thing you can. Whether that be your granny cleaning her false teeth or a gross teacher you had at school it's bound to stop you in your tracks and let you calm down a bit.

Yang's Answer

You need to get to grips with the stop and start method. It works wonders for increasing your sexual stamina.

Most teenage boys suffer with this problem so don't let it get you down. All you need is a bit of training for your over-eager friend.

The stop and start method is simple.....when you masturbate take yourself almost to the point of climax then STOP. Count to ten slowly. Then start again. Repeat this process as many times as you can bear, taking yourself closer to climax each time. This will train you to understand your climax and help you to have a little more control over your body next time your girl gets a bit kinky in the cinema.