9 months ago 06th Feb 16:11
If you want to have fantastic sex then you need to get things heated up with some foreplay. Some men will try their best to get this stage out of the way as fast as possible but you need to be firm.
It's essential that you take time to get all the sensual hot spots warmed up before you go for the main event. There's no point in jumping straight in all guns blazing because it simply won't feel as good.
Also by missing out on foreplay your also depriving yourself of an easy peasy orgasm. Just 15 mins of touching, kissing and licking in the right places will have you screaming with pleasure.
If your guy is a bit reluctant (or just plain rubbish) when it comes to foreplay then don't be shy about giving him a helping hand. Most men will find it a total turn on to watch a girl enjoy herself so why not suprise him with a solo show one night. Not only will you get to enjoy yourself the way you know best but you will also give him a few hints about what feels good for you.
If he still insists on rushing things then be assertive. Tell him to slow down. Reassure him he will get everything on the menu eventually but you want to enjoy the starter for a bit longer first.
Your Comments:
by Meghan - 21:50:25 21st Oct 2008
My boyfriend thinks masturbation is wrong too, and likes to jump straight into sex.
by COLETTE - 10:55:07 28th Aug 2008
My boyfriend & I prefer foreplay to the conventional straight sex. He is the "FOREPLAY KING
by Namaste - 18:57:00 2nd Aug 2008
Darryl, you can come and live with me.
by Sahar - 08:10:34 22nd Jul 2008
I do really like forepaly. I always do that with my partener for almost 30 m or sometimes one hours. it realy heads up both of us.
by Juanita - 05:36:21 13th Jul 2008
I asked my boyfriend for foreplay and he just laughed at me. He thinks that it is gross, he also thinks that oral sex and masturbation is gross.
by millie - 04:59:47 14th Apr 2008
my bf luvs foreplay =] n WOOOOOOOOOOW / /
by DARRYL - 02:24:42 18th Mar 2008
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by . - 16:41:54 15th Feb 2008
Definately clare, listen to steff.. you can do so much better.. you don't need to live like that.. God Bless you!
by Steff - 10:11:39 15th Feb 2008
Clare... I think you need to leave him hunny!
by clare - 11:53:54 10th Feb 2008
well my guy just wants what he wants and doesn't listen to me. if i don't show interest in what he wants he aint interested which leave me feeling like crap.